Sorry Christie Brinkley,  MAYBE A HUG BUT THATS ALL

It made so much sense then and it holds even more validity now some 47.5 years later.  Much of the decision was how I was brought up in a catholic  family with a father who was very clear on the beauty of Physical Intimacy.  My dad did not talk about it often, but when he did explain to me the birds and the bees of Intimacy he was very comfortable in explaining it was definitely one of God’s greatest gifts to Mankind.  The incredible joy and oneness you felt when expressing your love to your mate will be like nothing you will ever experience.  This great gift of love you will express to your {wife} in my case, when shared as God has ordained, will give you a feeling of unnatural power in telling your spouse I so truly love you. 

As I learned more of what he meant. It became clear to me that the act of PI (physical intimacy) with that one special lady would only be 100% pure and perfect if her mind could be 100% free to totally engage in the moment.  So free that all she had to concentrate on was the ability to find total relaxation and comfort in knowing she would be receiving this special gift from someone who gave her, himself like he had given no one else in the world.  Psychologically, It made sense that if she knew without doubt that I , Who could give this gift to 100s of other women but would promise that only to her, that she would know me.  That meant that every time we made love she would be the only person in the world to experience… Me…. A thousand things could go through her head as we caressed. But the one distraction she never had to contemplate was who I was making love to.

Think of all the gifts you can give someone or all the gifts someone can receive throughout their lifetime from potentially 100s or thousands of people.  And imagine the feeling you can give someone very often that says to them,  You are the only one in this universe that has ever been able to experience me. Just me. All the Queens in the world, all the famous people who believe money can buy anything will never get the pleasure of what I am about to give you.  How special can I make her feel that she is one in a trillion. And no one will ever get what she has.(unless of course she passes before I do).

I’m smiling at the thoughts of many of you while you  read this. “ My God, who does this guy think he is”? That his physical prowess is so spectacular that he feels his gift to someone is THAT fabulous. How arrogant, how pompous, how…..  You see many of us throughout our lives are capable of many wonderful acts,deeds and accomplishments that we could  share with many people.;, sports, song, school, work, the list goes on.  I’m sure that  many people in your life want you , and wonder, what would it be like to be physically close with you..  But if she is the only person he has been with, if she is the only person that can say she knows his love and no one else can claim that and she has received this gift of God from him.  Wow,,,  wow can she get a more personal and loving feeling then that.(happy valentines day sweetheart)

She is so special. No other woman can have what she has been  given. 

Not a house, nor an Island, or jewels, or any amount of money. Could ever be shared with anyone, by anyone. That can compare to a promise kept of  PI to just your lover.

And so every time they are sharing themselves with each other. Her mind can fade into ecstasy as she receives this indescribable gift of true love.and it is hers alone.

So yes once again, at a fairly young age, I began to chart out a course of  confidence, patience and respect for my future wife. I understood  that I could become a wonderful lover by learning what it would take to make her feel her best as we shared ourselves with each other.

But I would mentally be a spectacular husband if she knew that my gift to her was one she would never have to share with anyone in the world. I was hers and hers alone.  I was pretty sure then and definitely positive now that saving myself for Tammy and only Tammy was for her the best form of love I could give. And to the girls before her, as great as they were, I have no regrets that my saving myself for just one was for me and my marriage a comforting decision.

Is John M Schroeder  a great lover? Only  one person in the world can answer that…. Many may have an opinion, but its just an opinion. based on all the things they have read about me as a nice guy. How nice….cocky or confident. In respect to her.  Let her decide.

To my sweet wife.  It’s the gift that keeps giving.  I love you.

To my father who planted the seed.  You were one of the smartest men I have ever met.  Thank you for being so genuine and straightforward in your teachings. I think that why even into your 80’s you guys rocked as a loving couple.. How sweet, mom still talks about you dad, like a teenager in love, even at the age of 93. Looks like your theory was correct.

John M Schroeder

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